Best privacy settings for Instagram

Recommended age

Applies from age 13; Teen Accounts add default protections for teen users.

Local rules to check

• Platform minimums are a baseline. Local privacy or online-safety law can still require parental consent or a higher access age.
• EU/UK digital-consent thresholds vary by country: UK and Portugal 13; Italy and Spain 14; France 15; Germany 16.
• United States: COPPA rules apply under 13, and state social-media laws may add stricter account rules.
• Australia: covered age-restricted social media platforms must take steps to prevent under-16 accounts.
• Instagram is generally 13+, with Teen Accounts applying default protections to teen users and requiring a parent for many under-16 setting changes.

Main risks

• Minimum age is 13 — below that, the app isn’t designed for a child that age.
• Algorithmic Reels and Explore feeds surface content beyond accounts your child follows.
• Teen Accounts add default protections for teen users; under-16s need a parent to loosen many settings.

• Account is private

  High priority

  Switch the account to private so only approved followers see posts.

• Direct messages restricted to known contacts

  High priority

  Limit who can send direct messages to existing contacts only.

• Parental supervision linked

  High priority

  Link the platform's family-pairing / supervision tool to a parent account.

• Precise location is off

  High priority

  Turn off precise location sharing and location tags in posts.

• Comments restricted

  Medium priority

  Restrict who can comment, or disable comments from non-contacts.

• Livestreaming disabled

  Medium priority

  Disable livestreaming for the account.

• Not discoverable by strangers

  Medium priority

  Turn off account suggestions and find-by-phone/email so strangers can't discover the account.

• Sensitive-content filter / restricted mode on

  Medium priority

  Enable restricted mode or the sensitive-content filter.

• Identifying info minimized

  Medium priority

  Remove full name, school, age and identifiable photos from the public profile.

• Screen-time / usage limits set

  Lower priority

  Set daily screen-time or usage limits.

• Activity status / read receipts off

  Lower priority

  Turn off activity status and read receipts.

• Ad / data personalization minimized

  Lower priority

  Turn off personalized ads and limit data sharing.

Talking to your child

• Ask what they like about the app before talking about risks — lead with curiosity, not a lecture.
• Agree the settings together at the same screen, so it feels like a shared decision, not a punishment.
• Make it normal to tell you about anything uncomfortable — no blame for messages they didn’t ask for.
• Revisit the settings every few months; apps change defaults and your child’s use changes too.

Sources

• Official Instagram safety information

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